Just recently, my wife and I had to deal with an issue related our 16 year old daughter.  It started as a seemingly minor issue of mom’s rule of “no nail polish”.  Not to bore you with the details but the rule was broken and it escalated into a bigger drama and it involved some crying.   Wow, you say! How is this  blog post on bonsai relate to raising a child and what’s this mom and teenage daughter drama going to lead me to?  Okay, I know, this is a bit of a stretch from bonsai, pruning, wiring, etc.  Child Development experts will probably have my blog shut down after this post because I’m sure from their perspective,  I don’t have a clue what I’m talking about.  Okay, I admit, I don’t have a clue, but hear me out first and see if later I make sense.  If you say I…